德哥尔摩综合症

斯德哥尔摩综合症，Wikipedia的解释是这样的（引申意义）：
Loyalty to a more powerful abuser — in spite of the danger that this loyalty puts the victim in — is common among victims of domestic abuse, battered partners and child abuse (dependent children). In many instances the victims choose to remain loyal to their abuser, and choose not to leave him or her, even when they are offered a safe placement in foster homes or safe houses. This syndrome was described by psychoanalysts of the object relations theory school (see Fairbairn) as the phenomenon of psychological identification with the more powerful abuser. A variant of Stockholm Syndrome includes cases of abusive parents and abusive siblings in which the victim, even after entering adulthood still justifies the family abuse.
想不到这些举止真的可以综合为一系列症状，想不到真的有那么多人甘愿犯这种自虐性的心理毛病，想不到一段深陷泥潭的感情原来有它的合理的逻辑。
就这样吧，既然这是一种病，坦然面对会更有效些，病痛也会更轻微些。